I will post my chart in your forum. The opposition and square are more challenging and require work. I would have to look at your whole chart and give an opinion and it would only be my opinion. The Ascendant person looks and expresses herself in a way that is very pleasing to the Sun person. We both say the same…we cannot live without each other. Do any of the bad Nessus aspects between two people get cancelled out if a man’s dejanira conjuncts a woman’s venus and mercury. Don´t like this one at all…. I don’t struggle to abuse because since I was little, I knew it’s not right and I’ll never wish that to happen to anyone, not even my enemy. You can come and put your whole chart up in my Forum if you want to ask more questions, my Friend! Not sure what to think..& if I should pursue the relationship.. I would be grateful if you answer♡. There is REALLY NO abuser in me what so ever. Thank you, Karen. Just like in heaven. What about Dejanira conj Nessus who feels what? She will cause you great pain but you will fight back. Thank you. One cannot distinguish parts. If the Nessus is prominent in the birth chart, it can be said that the person will deal with this dark energy in life. Your contributions add a lot! I’m waiting for your frank opinion..T.T, THank you May Jane and Welcome! I have nessus in leo, my 11th, opposite vesta. I will give a general answer though since you took the time to ask the question. Oh woops sorry Nicole I thought you were Ami asking me that question , Your email address will not be published. I have no other words to describe and my gut feeling tells me .. wait.. don’t go further.. remain friends … and do not become Lovers.. Trust your gut!Sado conj Moon is enough to ditch the guy lol. I do offer a single question chart. we are not yet together,,,too many obstacles. They are not really opposite. But always, always… she has an urge to make me feel worthless. Loved my dad (still do): His Nessus conjunct my Jupiter. My son has a lot of oppositions to his Libra moon with an Aries stellium, so it can be hard for me to keep up with him. And if I stand up for myself saying its not my job – then they hate me. i guess that’s pretty tender :-/. So why is it on my midheaven? I have never seen obsession without classic aspects in the chart. Come put your fascinating chart up in my Forum . Good day Ami! Unfortunatelly, we don’t have the magical Moon aspect but we do, indeed have other “glue” aspects in our synastry. I just learned about Nessus — I have it conjunct my NN and also my Moon. Venus/Pluto natally and/or in synastry (double trouble for me again.) Well um…forewarned is forearmed, but to be honest I’d worry about problems if and when they come up in your marriage and tackle them then. And I would had a chance to rise when I was a child. His Nessus conjucnt my vertex 0 degree, opposition my Sun 1 degree. If it aspects Saturn, it can represent abuse of power or an irresistible urge to dominate others through power games. One does not toy with these asteroids. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. It is interesting that my mother cannot cope with beings born around (my birthdate). In synastry, when he conjuncts/opposes the other person's personal planets and house rulers he is activating himself. Wider orbs are safely workable. The moment I start to feel in love and believe that I finally found someone who understands me and that they may actually be the one….they suddenly flip on me, shock me with insults and grudges that they were holding in and abruptly leave. Moon conj Saturn is a very hard one, maybe harder than Moon conjunct Nessus, even. I didn’t realize the experience i had of standing up from bed to go to bible class i felt like just a channel. @Racole, you poor dear! I was so shocked to discover this. ... His Union and Lust conjunct my Amor his Nessus conjuct my Vesta ... our synastry: my juno conjunct her sun,moon,mercury,venus,pluto and chiron I am not sure abt my nessus placement, but I get a heavy kick out of seeing my romantic partners cry..**I don’t know why but I love to see you cry** Nessus Conjunct the Ascendant. Nessus is in everyone’s Natal Chart but it is more relevant when it is in conjunction with the Sun, the Ascendant or the Descendant. There is prolly a lot of heart and soul in the relationship, such as Moon trine Moon. Are there ways to ease that conjunction? I am the sun placement, and my son is the Deja person. Its really nothing. I understand how it feels. So, if any of the abusive asteroids, such as Nessus or Algol are conjunct your ASC, in synastry, you will feel it and it will hurt. After we look at your chart on my Forum, we can look at his and your synastry. I don’t care how sweet she seems, she isn’t. And Yes, I can be really angry (Mars 0 degrees in cap square pluto). My dejanira (24° 53′ ♎) conjunct his nessus (26° 38′ ♎). It is because the relationship brings up childhood abuse. The Deja/venus is powerful. My social handicap isn’t even that bad. Nessus – Ascendant: Someone with Nessus conjunct the Ascendant had unfortunately the concept of abuse present throughout their entire life, first with their relationship to their mother, then to their relationship with their husband. Were you sexually abused? She had me as a scape goat and my brothers were favourised – but no one believes me when I tell today, except for my father (but no one believes him either because of how scrued up she have made him seem to others). But what about his Nessus conjunct his Moon in the natal chart? You can’t help that either. What does it mean? Thank you. Indeed, Juno often figures strongly in the synastry charts of marriage couples. And I forgot to write these. intonation and look of awe. He may strike back when he feels his ego has been wounded. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo, conjunct Asc in 18 Virgo, opposite Sun in 22 Pisces, and Venus in 16 Pisces. I did met up with a psychic/astrologer personally where I am living, she is the mother of my friend’s friend and she gave me a nice discount. Check Me Out, DUDE. I think it’s always better to leave behind something positive, even if other people are trying to bring negative. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I have this as a close-orb DW with someone (meaning my venus cnj their dejanira, and their venus cnj my dejanira). Um… Here is the problem. Dejanira is conjunct my 5th house Venus. I am also always doing my best to give without making others feel the slightest bit guilty if they don’t give anything in return. Cause my mother still seems to everyone as being the perfect angelic person, and my communication problem makes everyone think I am the one to blame for everything instead. Its too insane to go into. People ask me if the person has to abuse. I don’t believe in karma, in terms of past lives, as I am a Bible believer and we believe once born and once to die. I was really scared for hours. Was your mother very demeaning to you and took away your confidence? Aside from these three, which I believe are a perfect cocktail, are the following: My ex hubs had Mars/Saturn tightly conjunct, squaring his Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Merc. This may be a classic teacher-student combination. My nessus and ceres conjunct his mars… What does it mean? This is a lot but when you have Nessus and Deja strongly, the relationship starts amazing but ends badly. Another possibility of this placement is attracting partners who want to "own" them, or get obsessed with them, We are getting married in less than three weeks. My boyfriend’s draconic Nessus is conjunct my draconic moon, should I be concerned about this? My Moon conjunct Nessus at wide 4 deg orb. This is one of the asteroids that does not have much importance in an individual birth chart because of its long orbit of around 123 years. Suspicions. Please, tell me the story. My dejanira is about 5 degs away from his moon if it counts. They contribute to the whole you. There is an artist to whom I composed and sent some music..in general we have pretty complex composite chart and lot of karmic aspects. Each person will touch a pivotal part of the chart of the other person with his Nessus and Dejanira. He seems really nice and patient. Please explain what you mean from the beginning, Ramona. Sun person can help lead Ascendant person to fully realizing their potential and can enhance Ascendant person's personal life and career. (My Chiron conjunct Venus in 2nd, and Mars and Saturn conjunct in Taurus 3rd house Novile exatly MOON conj. I see if Nessus touches important things in the chart, MJ. His conjunctions to the angles will show his deep obsession and interest of the angle person concerning the quality of the angle. That usually ends in them beeing so ashamed of what they put me through, and even more sorry that they lost my love/friendship. You will come out with valuable lessons, having learned them from the fire, always the best way. I am having counselling for alcohol problems and through this and through creativity I am doing the wotk on myself and resolving not to be the victim. Our lives were turned upside down when I fell in love with a man married 20 yrs. His mars conjunct my moon…and opposition my mars and venus in fiery aries. In fact her Nessus would have been bang on the dog’s Sun, she had to give it away as she could not cope. All dating has been a disaster. You can post the charts on my Forum in the Personal readings section. Well.. No that would still count. “for my own good” so I can work on them… I knew from the begining this was not right how I felt with him…but this didn’t stop me. This is an optimistic match. which reminds me that the sun is currently conjunct it. It is called the Courtesan’s Moon because it can separate it’s emotions from it’s reason. I think I’ve had a victim mentality most of my life, so I guess these aspects must be strong enough? Finally his Angel is on my ASC so I guess he seemed like an angel to me…anyway. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Nessus) I have childhood abuse from my Father. as far as physical abuse goes I doubt I could do such a thing. Pretty peaceful relationship. Really good article on the Nessus and Dejanira asteroids. so intense! The rest of the chart would show why. If you do not have a prominent Nessus in the natal, Nessus can be activated by synastry. Sun and Ascendant conjunct in the synastry chart. It really scrues your brain up when someone is overly nice, but psychologically abusive. Heard that as well mean serving others but mostly by being used, both psychologicly and physichly. No. Depends on the orbs allowed for aspects, I guess. What does your Dejanira do? My Dejanira conjunct Mars in Capricorn (Dejanira = 3,2 / Mars = 0,11). . I am always trying to help those who are being accused, even though they might also have strong evidence pointing against them – cause they might just be as unlucky as me…. I had a lot of problems with abuse from my mother for years, where she successfully got my father involved, although we both cottoned on to what was happening and left her. I am also not a disciplinarian. Venus conjunct ascendant synastry suggests that the two people are almost immediately attracted to each other when they meet. This means that millions of people born within a roughly 10 year period will have it in the same Sign. North Node is therefore also square my Chiron (makes people block every step I try taking on my life path, which leaves me to not be able to do much other than spend my time staring into a wall nowadays). In Synastry, these are the main Nessus red flags, 1.5 degree orbs max: Guys Nessus conj Girl's Ascendant Nessus square Venus/Dejanira/Moon Nessus conj/square Saturn or Sun. Your Moon/Pluto square in synastry could be a trigger IF this square aspects dejanira or nessus. As with most life experiences, the chart can guide you from the beginning to the end, with as few casualties as possible. He says he is only joking… but.. Sado conjunct Moon… need I say more??? I spend a good amount of time snuggling, playing hard, teaching, kissing, and hugging him. I heard that makes me a healer and more concerned with making other people happy, rather than taking care of myself. Noone acts purely on Nessus alone, luckily we have many other planets in our chart, and we ARE subject to social conditioning. Great question, Violets i have a post about moon conjunct mars. Pain hits you in the face, literally. There is super, super attraction for both people but, in time, it will turn bad. She gives me money if I need it etc, making herself an angel. second would be Dejanira conjunct the ascendant. Nesus is abusive but then again, Saturn is restriction and blockage. Apart from close aspect with Nessus, Nemesis and Dejanira. Thank YOU for reading and commenting, my Friend! Posts: 1010 From: Registered: Feb 2015: posted July 25, 2016 06:51 AM His isn’t prominent, mine is (conjunct Mercury). I was thinking that these aspects could be palying out (only?) I have Deja conjunct my Sun in Cancer. Yes, if the man’s Deja conj the woman’s venus, that would be SOME cancellation but not that much because venus and mercury are not super “strong/aggressive/assertive planets like the Sun, Mars or Pluto, in which case, there would be a cancellation. Venus/Pluto natally and/or in synastry (double trouble for me again.) As such, the woman( we shall use a woman here, although it could be a man) feels love when she should be running for the hills. From your description that asteroid would make me an abuser – but everything else in my chart is saying the opposite and they alls stand together. We definitely have a past life connection. I’ve done a bit of reading on nessus but need to do more. Thanks for this thread. I have too many other good sides. Both are strong. Thank you!!! Wow If I were in your position, I would have an astrologer do the chart before the marriage and I would heed it because the charts will play out. Gossip. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Thanks for sharing, Antipodes. If people ask me, can they do anything to change it, I would say no. But that is never true. Chiron conj the NN always plays out into a theme of pain in the relationship. 1. There are many factors to come up with a conclusion like that or an opinion because it is an opinion. She just, she did not care as much about me as I did about her… Now that I am starting to go into asteroid astrology, I looked at our synastry and: Her Dejanira conjuncts my Sun, her Nemesis my MC, and her BML my IC. It will play out! Wow Wow Wow Violets That seems to be the case in all of these relationships. Tell me the story of the relationship, Gwen. And also his Sado conjunct my Moon. When I was 15-17 years old I had a really good friend, who later took advantage of me (I like to help people and helped her in her mentally abusive realtionship), lied to me etc. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. It is simply the case and has never failed. thank youuu, You will be the abuser but he will fight back. This native will, likely, be an abuser. Nessus Conjunct Moon. Thank you for being so honest. Back to the synastry, Nessus is always dominant in a synastry of obsession. Hence, I would not pay much attention to this. I cannot see this turning out well. Remember, these asteroids have to be very close(1-3 degrees). I have one question that all his Nessus and Deja are in my 7th house in synastry. which reminds me that the sun is currently conjunct it. I can’t give an opinion on this alone. Well, I can’t tell you to run away, per se, without seeing the actual charts and the synastry. Wow Ramona. Its really interesting! And she still is, but never admit. I know this sounds bad but it is energies not judgements on people, if you know what I mean. He will bring the theme of the victim to the relationship. And if we fear things we can end up acting the stuff out we fear. I am horrified by our charts, as I love my son and am not an abusive person. If anyone comes to you, obsessed with me, ready to die if they can’t have me… let me know. Also, do you struggle with being victimized over and over? On its own, this is a very physical connection, mixed with feelings of appreciation and affection. If you do not have a prominent Nessus in the natal, Nessus can be activated by synastry. I think he may or YOU may. I have read some of them but it is so upsetting that I did not really spend that much time on it. Your post placement is cool, Sweetie. You may be more powerful than he, but i would have to look at the whole chart to say and with Nessus conj the Moon, he could jump out from under the bed, so to speak :/. Abuse and love form part of a soup in which the ingredients have melded into one. Your email address will not be published. Aside from these three, which I believe are a perfect cocktail, are the following: My ex hubs had Mars/Saturn tightly conjunct, squaring his Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Merc. I have an article on the North Node in Synastry. I have learned to get away by using humor, my intellect or just physically getting out of the area. They never expected me to be a really strong individual who won’t take crap, only because of how enormous they wanted to see my minor handicap as beeing…. Lilith, Nessus, Dejanira, Hekate, Lucifer and Kaali were some major players in that….even Massalina was mentioned! Don’t know if your familiar with yoga s. Trying to sort things out i noticed that the highest is King is Raja. Don’t know her asteroid positions, though. What if a man’s Nessus is conjunct a woman’s descendant? I’ve done a bit of reading on nessus but need to do more. My mars is exactly conjunct her Moon and her Mars conjunct my Chiron/SN/AV. I’d get revenge. I have this as a close-orb DW with someone (meaning my venus cnj their dejanira, and their venus cnj my dejanira). But It’s never a nice thing to hurt me. I would not worry about the Draconic if it were me. I recently I found out that his Moon may conjunct my Nessus and Nemesis 1-3 degree (I don’t know his exact birth time). To me, a person with Nessus conjunct a personal planet( Sun, moon, Merc, Mars or Venus),the North Node or the ASC or MC will be an abuser. This native seems to be evil. In my opinion, it will turn bad, so keep your eyes open, Love! 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